The Little Book of Diet Help: Lose weight-without losing your Mind - Softcover

Willis Ph.D., Kimberly

Softcover

ISBN 10: 1451660693 ISBN 13: 9781451660692

Publisher: Atria Books, 2015

Synopsis

"The perfect companion to any diet regimen a simple, accessible guide to shedding excess pounds for good, by helping you shift your attitudes towards food, your body, and yourself.The truth is, diets don't work or, at least, their results don't last.When we diet, we're so consumed by what we can't eat that we don't focus on how we eat, and on how eating makes us feel. Kimberly Willis, a wellness therapist, knows that the only way to maintain long term weight loss is to make deep, fundamental changesin the way that you think about and relate to food, your feelings, and your figure.The Little Book of Diet Help is for everyone who thinks they know how to lose weight but still can't seem to shed those extra pounds. With this book you'll learn:· How to break down negative emotional links to food· Why certain foods affect your body and your mood· What your bad eating habits look like and how to create new, improved ones· How to distinguish between physical and emotional hungerIn easy to understand language, Kimberly explains why diets wreak havoc with your brain, and why learning to minimize your stress levels will automatically help you to eat better and maintain a healthier lifestyle. Mixed with these resonant facts are tried-and-true acupressure and hypnosis exercises, as well as soothing meditations that can steer you away from a food craving or boost your mood when you're feeling down.This is not a diet program, it's a diet helper; whether you're on Atkins, The 17 Day Diet, or simply trying to cut down on sweets. It's a book you can jump into and out of at any time and that wants you to feel good and look great. It's tough love truths combined with inspiration and encouragement, and it's an essential resource for anyonelooking to keep that excess weight off for good"--

About this title

About the Author:

Kimberly Willis, PhD, is a weight loss specialist, life coach, and hypnotherapist. She holds a PhD in Chemistry and lives with her family in Sheffield, England.

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SECTION 2

Getting Started

QUICK METABOLISM BOOSTER

Deep belly breathing boosts your metabolism—and when your metabolism is boosted, you are burning more calories.

• Stand up.

• Place one hand on your stomach.

• Breathe deeply and slowly, through your nose, as if you could breathe into the depths of your stomach.

• Repeat for 5 breaths.

Remember:

Zero fat

does not mean

zero calories

Calories matter!

Feeling hungry?

Before reaching for a snack, have a glass of water.

When you are thirsty your body can send out hunger signals, because it knows that you can get water from food.

Drink some water and you might find that your hunger disappears.

Q: How can you burn more calories watching TV at night?

A: Exercise in the morning!

This will boost your metabolism for the rest of the day.

Even when you are sitting in front of the TV in the evening you will be burning more calories than normal.

UNWANTED FOOD CRAVING?

Rub the area between your nose and your top lip with your index finger for about a minute.

This is a soothing point that will comfort you and reduce your craving.

Hug someone!

When you hug someone you feel better.

When you feel better you eat better.

So go on—have a cuddle.

THE TEMPTATION BATTLE

Sometimes it feels like a battle is going on in your mind. A part of you knows you are not hungry and really don’t want that cookie—but the other part of you is trying to convince yourself that it’s okay to eat it—that after all, you deserve it.

Win the temptation battle!

If you find yourself tempted by snack food—like a bag of chips, a handful of M&Ms, or a late-night bowl of ice cream—try this exercise:

Touch the front part of your ear, that bit of cartilage that sticks out in front of your ear canal. Now, rub it between your thumb and index finger for a few minutes.

This is a strong acupressure point. Rubbing it will help turn off cravings by redirecting your energy and lowering your appetite.

The chemicals at work in your body: insulin

Insulin is a hormone produced by your body, which allows it to absorb sugar. Here’s how it works:

· Insulin is produced by the pancreas to absorb sugar from your bloodstream.

· Refined carbohydrates, which are essentially sugars, are quickly absorbed into your bloodstream after a meal.

· After you eat a large amount of refined carbohydrates, your body rushes to produce enough insulin to absorb the high level of sugars in your blood.

· But when your blood-sugar levels inevitably drop you will probably feel hungry, irritable, and cranky.

The white carbohydrates and sugar hunger trap

Imagine a small child who has just eaten a huge bag of candy. You know what happens next—his energy will skyrocket and you’ll practically have to peel him off the ceiling! Then before you know it, he’ll crash—and he’ll be irritable, unhappy, and likely to throw a tantrum. The same thing happens to adults when we eat processed foods—only instead of having a tantrum, we tend to reach for more comfort foods. Here’s how the chemistry works:

When you eat a bowl of pasta or a slice of cake. . . .

· Your blood sugar zooms up.

· Your body releases more and more insulin to cope with the sudden increase.

· This excess insulin now causes your blood-sugar levels to plummet.

· As a result you feel hungry, tired, and irritable.

· You crave more food.

· You gain weight.

· More important, this can lead to type 2 diabetes.*

How can you stabilize your blood sugar?

Eating protein (eggs, turkey, chicken) or unrefined carbohydrates (that’s brown pasta, brown rice, and whole wheat or multigrain bread) prevents your blood-sugar levels from plummeting, instead causing a more gradual rise in blood-sugar levels.

When you stabilize your blood sugar:

· You feel fuller for longer.

· You eat less.

· You have more energy.

· You feel happier.

· You naturally lose weight.

Slim people stop eating when
they are no longer hungry.

Overweight people stop
eating when they are full.

AFTERNOON ENERGY BOOST

It’s 4 p.m. You are tired, and you need an energy boost.

Try this exercise as an alternative to going to the vending machine.*

• Stand up.

• Start marching, lifting your knees high and swinging the opposite arms.

• Now shift to marching with the same-side arms and legs moving together.

• Repeat for a minute or two.

Beware, beware the bliss point . . .

This is a special point in your brain that is stimulated by foods containing excessive amounts of fat, salt, and sugar.

Think pizzas, cookies, and battered chicken.

Your brain loves it when this point is stimulated—it’s like a drug, and your brain doesn’t want this feeling to end.

Part of your brain is going to try to keep you eating more and more of this food.

Even if you are full—stuffed—it will still want you to eat more.

When the bliss point takes over, you just can’t stop eating. You are out of control. *

Be aware of the foods that trigger this for you—this is what some manufacturers work toward. They want you to crave more and more of their product. Avoid those foods—they will beat any willpower!

If you recognize this behavior, then you need to avoid the foods that cause it.

Is all hunger the same?

Physical Hunger	Comes hours after your last meal. This is a real hunger—one that you need to pay attention to.
Emotional Hunger	Is caused by a negative or positive emotional trigger and can hit you any time of the day, even if you have just eaten. This type of hunger makes you gain weight.

POSITIVE MIND AND BODY BOOST

This exercise will help you to feel good and to reconnect with your body.

• Stand up.

• Bring your hands in front of your chest in prayer position. As you inhale deeply, raise your hands, still in prayer position, above your head and look up.

• Hold this position as you inhale and exhale deeply for a couple of breaths. On your next out breath, bring your hands back in front of your chest. Repeat 3 times.

• Each time you raise your hands, feel yourself rooting into the ground as you simultaneously stretch toward the sky.

• Finish by tapping the top of your head with your fingertips, like raindrops. Notice how much calmer and lighter you feel.

As you go about your day, periodically tune into your body, and recall the sensation of peace and ease that you felt as you finished this exercise.

Remember:
When you feel better you eat better.

Eat better

Forget about eating right

Eating better is easier than eating right.*

Eating right all the time can be hard work and depressing. Plus, you will probably fail—and when you do, you will then feel that much worse.

You can succeed at eating better than you have before. You can feel good about yourself and the positive changes that you are making.

When you fail at eating right, you will feel bad. When you feel bad you are more likely to comfort eat. This is what restrictive diets do to you.

Eating better makes you feel good. It’s about the many small accomplishments that add up to a big change. Most important, it allows you to be human—and humans make mistakes!

Eat slowly!

Chew slowly!

Pay attention to what you are eating.

Binge eaters don’t taste
what they are eating.

Notice your food. Smell your food.

Chew slowly. Savor the tastes and
textures of each mouthful.

Appreciate your food.

Stop forbidding certain foods

Why should you? Try this:

Don’t think of pink elephants.

I’ll bet you did!

Now say to yourself, “I’m not having chocolate, no chocolate, no chocolate.”

What does your brain hear?

Chocolate Chocolate Chocolate Chocolate

This will beat even the strongest willpower. Because you were so fixated on forbidding chocolate, it was all you could think about—and you ate a pound of it.

Instead, allow yourself a bit of chocolate and open up your thoughts and your energy for other, better things.

Are you hungry?

Put your hand on your stomach and notice how your stomach is really feeling.

Ignoring real physical hunger until you are starving causes your body to slow down, as it thinks there is a famine and it must save energy.

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About this edition

• Publisher: Atria Books
• Publication date: 2015
• ISBN 10: 1451660693
• ISBN 13: 9781451660692
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 192