Creating a Life - Softcover

Hewlett, Sylvia

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ISBN 10: 1401359302 ISBN 13: 9781401359300

Publisher: Miramax, 2004

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Hundreds of books have been written about the problems confronting women who want to combine a fulfilling career with motherhood. Sylvia Ann Hewlett's Creating a Life cuts away the myths and lies that surround the subject. It goes to the very heart of the dilemma. Her message is simple: if you want to have children, plan for them with the same intensity you bring to your career ambitions. Creating a Life is essential reading for a generation of women who have the chance to get it right, and create a life.

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About the Author:

Sylvia Ann Hewlett is an economist and author of several books, including When the Bough Breaks -- winner of a Robert F. Kennedy Memorial Book Prize -- and The War Against Parents, cowritten with Cornel West. She is the founder and chair of the National Parenting Association and lives in New York City with her husband and children.

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"Between a third and a half of all high-achieving women in America do not have children" and "the vast majority yearn" for them, says Hewlett, founder of the National Parenting Association. In this study of baby lust, Hewlett portrays the anguished hand-wringing by middle-aged women who were career-obsessed throughout their 20s and 30s, only to wake up single at 40, biological clocks all petered out. Infertility treatment is not a solution, she says; it's expensive, dangerous to women's health and unlikely to produce a pregnancy, much less a live, healthy baby. Moms and potential moms from playwright Wendy Wasserstein to a 46-year-old single woman who traveled to China to adopt illustrate Hewlett's thesis that "some of the most heartfelt struggles of the breakthrough generation have centered on the attempt to snatch a child from the jaws of menopause. A few succeed; most do not." Hewlett attests that "if high-altitude careers inevitably exact a price, it's profoundly unfair that the highest prices... are paid by women." "Self-indulgent" women might try to have a child and a career by hiring a nanny, but for Hewlett, it's more "courageous" for a woman to forgo childbearing if a career is her real goal. Hewlett's advice to young women is strangely retro: get married you'll be happier and healthier. She counsels them to give "urgent priority" to finding a marriage partner fast, "have your first baby before 35" and look for work at a family-friendly corporation. Though ardently argued, her case is unconvincing.

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