Dreams of Glory: A Mother's Season With Her Son's High School Football Team - Hardcover

Oppenheimer, Judy

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 0671687549 ISBN 13: 9780671687540

Publisher: Summit Books, 1991

Synopsis

The mother of a high school football player writes about the game she has come to love, profiling her son's teams and discussing what the game means to them

About this title

From Kirkus Reviews:

A new convert to the game of football, Oppenheimer (Private Demons, 1988) decided to observe, record, and analyze the daily activity of her son's 1988 Bethesda-Chevy Chase High School team. Like the team's season, the results are mixed. Toby, senior offensive lineman in only his second year, didn't like the idea: ``What seventeen-year-old wants his mother hanging around a locker room?'' The BCC Barons and head coach Pete White, meanwhile, felt there was reason for optimism despite going 5-5 in 1987, their best record in years. ``Win 8 in '88 and go to state!'' was the battle cry. The talent at this ethnically diverse, affluent suburban school included a 300-lb. center, a 5'-6'' Korean linebacker, a swift Jamaican running back, and an assortment of blacks, Asians, and white kids more inclined toward soccer. It wasn't always a comfortable mix. As Oppenheimer follows their progress, she scrutinizes their attitudes toward one another and the coaches, toward winning and losing, their sex lives, and their use of drugs and alcohol. Fighting off her own anxieties--``Zen and the art of football parenting''--about her son, she rarely inserts herself in the picture but allows the boys to speak in their own, often inarticulate, tiresome way: But I'm, like, okay, so I go, and he goes.... There's a disappointing opening game; a racist coach (``black kids...were more arrogant, tougher, meaner''); a bitter, injury-rife, one-point loss to rival Einstein; the boys' cockiness following the homecoming victory; and, finally, the season-ending trouncing at the hands of ``mammoth, untouchable, abandon-all-hope'' Gaithersburg. The annual banquet, despite the 4-6 record, would toast individual achievements and look toward next year. At times self-conscious and shrill (the locker room, ``a place for the ancient rites of grabass'') and at other times perceptive, but Oppenheimer never quite puts it all together. Rather like missing the point after. -- Copyright ©1991, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved.

From Library Journal:

Oppenheimer closely involved herself with the fortunes of her son's football team at Bethesda-Chevy Chase High School during the 1988 season. She attended games and practices, and recorded not only the joy of victory and agony of defeat, but the sociological backgrounds and futures of the team's athletes as well. Ironically, her book covers much the same ground as H.G. Bissinger does in the controversial Friday Night Lights ( LJ 8/90), which depicts a football-obsessed Texas community and its high school football program. However, the Texas and Maryland teams and communities are vastly different. Oppenheimer's approach as a committed mother/fan merits consideration by most collections, including those owning the Bissinger treatment.
-Morey Berger, formerly with Monmouth Cty. Lib., Manalapan, N.J.
Copyright 1991 Reed Business Information, Inc.

About this edition

• Publisher: Summit Books
• Publication date: 1991
• ISBN 10: 0671687549
• ISBN 13: 9780671687540
• Binding: Hardcover
• Edition number: 1
• Number of pages: 336